خُذِ ٱلْعَفْوَ وَأْمُرْ بِٱلْعُرْفِ وَأَعْرِضْ عَنِ ٱلْجَـٰهِلِينَ 199
Translations
Take what is given freely, enjoin what is good, and turn away from the ignorant.
Transliteration
Khudh al-'afwa wa'mur bil-'urf wa-a'rid 'an al-jahilin
Tafsir (Explanation)
This ayah commands the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) to adopt three complementary approaches: to take what comes easily and overlook minor transgressions ('afwa), to command and promote what is customarily good and virtuous ('urf), and to turn away from the ignorant and foolish. According to Ibn Kathir and Al-Tabari, this represents a balanced approach to da'wah (Islamic call) that combines mercy, moral instruction, and wisdom in dealing with people of varying understanding. Al-Qurtubi emphasizes that 'afwa means accepting what is voluntarily given without demanding more, reflecting both practicality and forbearance in interpersonal dealings.
Revelation Context
This ayah appears near the end of Surah Al-A'raf, which emphasizes themes of guidance, moral conduct, and the Prophet's character as a mercy to humanity. The broader context of these verses addresses the Prophet's mission and the qualities required for effective spiritual leadership and communication with diverse audiences, reflecting the mature Meccan period.
Related Hadiths
Tirmidhi narrated that the Prophet said, 'Whoever is kind to the creatures of God is kind to himself.' Additionally, in Sahih Muslim, Aisha reported that the Prophet said, 'Gentleness is not found in anything except that it beautifies it, and it is not withdrawn from anything except that it makes it ugly.'
Themes
Key Lesson
This ayah teaches us that effective spiritual and social influence comes not through harsh judgment or demanding perfection from others, but through combining clemency with principled guidance and knowing when to disengage from unproductive arguments. For modern readers, it models emotional intelligence and practical wisdom in addressing disagreements while maintaining moral integrity.
Related Ayahs
فَعَقَرُوا۟ ٱلنَّاقَةَ وَعَتَوْا۟ عَنْ أَمْرِ رَبِّهِمْ وَقَالُوا۟ يَـٰصَـٰلِحُ ٱئْتِنَا بِمَا تَعِدُنَآ إِن كُنتَ مِنَ ٱلْمُرْسَلِينَ
So they hamstrung the she-camel and were insolent toward the command of their Lord and said, "O Ṣāliḥ, bring us what you promise us, if you should be of the messengers."
وَقَالَ ٱلْمَلَأُ ٱلَّذِينَ كَفَرُوا۟ مِن قَوْمِهِۦ لَئِنِ ٱتَّبَعْتُمْ شُعَيْبًا إِنَّكُمْ إِذًا لَّخَـٰسِرُونَ
Said the eminent ones who disbelieved among his people, "If you should follow Shuʿayb, indeed, you would then be losers."
وَأَوْرَثْنَا ٱلْقَوْمَ ٱلَّذِينَ كَانُوا۟ يُسْتَضْعَفُونَ مَشَـٰرِقَ ٱلْأَرْضِ وَمَغَـٰرِبَهَا ٱلَّتِى بَـٰرَكْنَا فِيهَا ۖ وَتَمَّتْ كَلِمَتُ رَبِّكَ ٱلْحُسْنَىٰ عَلَىٰ بَنِىٓ إِسْرَٰٓءِيلَ بِمَا صَبَرُوا۟ ۖ وَدَمَّرْنَا مَا كَانَ يَصْنَعُ فِرْعَوْنُ وَقَوْمُهُۥ وَمَا كَانُوا۟ يَعْرِشُونَ
And We caused the people who had been oppressed to inherit the eastern regions of the land and the western ones, which We had blessed. And the good word [i.e., decree] of your Lord was fulfilled for the Children of Israel because of what they had patiently endured. And We destroyed [all] that Pharaoh and his people were producing and what they had been building.
قَالَ ٱلْمَلَأُ مِن قَوْمِ فِرْعَوْنَ إِنَّ هَـٰذَا لَسَـٰحِرٌ عَلِيمٌ
Said the eminent among the people of Pharaoh, "Indeed, this is a learned magician