وَإِنِ ٱمْرَأَةٌ خَافَتْ مِنۢ بَعْلِهَا نُشُوزًا أَوْ إِعْرَاضًا فَلَا جُنَاحَ عَلَيْهِمَآ أَن يُصْلِحَا بَيْنَهُمَا صُلْحًا ۚ وَٱلصُّلْحُ خَيْرٌ ۗ وَأُحْضِرَتِ ٱلْأَنفُسُ ٱلشُّحَّ ۚ وَإِن تُحْسِنُوا۟ وَتَتَّقُوا۟ فَإِنَّ ٱللَّهَ كَانَ بِمَا تَعْمَلُونَ خَبِيرًا 128
Translations
And if a woman fears from her husband contempt or evasion, there is no sin upon them if they make terms of settlement between them - and settlement is best. And present in [human] souls is stinginess. But if you do good and fear Allāh - then indeed Allāh is ever, of what you do, Aware.
Transliteration
Wa-in imra'atun khafat min ba'liha nushoozan aw i'raaḍan falaa junāḥa alayhimā an yuṣliḥā baynahumā ṣulḥan. Wa-aṣ-ṣulḥu khayrun. Wa-uḥḍirat al-anfusu ash-shuhh. Wa-in tuḥsinū wa-tattaqū fa-inna Allāha kāna bimā ta'malūna khabīran.
Tafsir (Explanation)
This ayah addresses the situation when a wife fears her husband's nushūz (aversion, abandonment, or ill-treatment) or i'rāḍ (turning away), permitting both spouses to seek reconciliation through mutual agreement without blame. The verse emphasizes that reconciliation (ṣulḥ) is superior to conflict, while acknowledging that human souls are naturally inclined toward self-interest (shuhh); however, those who demonstrate kindness and piety will be rewarded as Allah is fully aware of their deeds. Classical scholars like Al-Qurtubi and Ibn Kathir interpret this as establishing mutual rights and responsibilities within marriage, contrasting with the preceding verse (4:128) which addresses the husband's nushūz.
Revelation Context
This verse is part of Surah An-Nisa's comprehensive treatment of marital relations and women's rights, revealed in Medina. It appears in a passage dealing with marital discord and the remedies available to both spouses, reflecting the Islamic principle of preserving the marital bond through reconciliation while acknowledging the reality of human nature and its challenges.
Related Hadiths
The Prophet (ﷺ) said: 'The best of you are those who are best to their wives' (Jami' at-Tirmidhi). Additionally, the hadith 'Whoever among you can afford to marry should marry, for it helps lower the gaze and guards the private parts' (Sahih Bukhari) relates to the broader context of maintaining healthy marital relationships.
Themes
Key Lesson
This ayah teaches that marriage requires active effort from both partners to maintain harmony, and that seeking peaceful resolution over confrontation—even when requiring personal sacrifice—is spiritually superior and pleasing to Allah. It affirms that women have the agency and right to seek reconciliation on their own terms when their marriage faces difficulties.
Related Ayahs
وَإِذَا حَضَرَ ٱلْقِسْمَةَ أُو۟لُوا۟ ٱلْقُرْبَىٰ وَٱلْيَتَـٰمَىٰ وَٱلْمَسَـٰكِينُ فَٱرْزُقُوهُم مِّنْهُ وَقُولُوا۟ لَهُمْ قَوْلًا مَّعْرُوفًا
And when [other] relatives and orphans and the needy are present at the [time of] division, then provide for them [something] out of it [i.e., the estate] and speak to them words of appropriate kindness.
إِنَّ ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوا۟ ثُمَّ كَفَرُوا۟ ثُمَّ ءَامَنُوا۟ ثُمَّ كَفَرُوا۟ ثُمَّ ٱزْدَادُوا۟ كُفْرًا لَّمْ يَكُنِ ٱللَّهُ لِيَغْفِرَ لَهُمْ وَلَا لِيَهْدِيَهُمْ سَبِيلًۢا
Indeed, those who have believed then disbelieved, then believed then disbelieved, and then increased in disbelief - never will Allāh forgive them, nor will He guide them to a way.
وَٱبْتَلُوا۟ ٱلْيَتَـٰمَىٰ حَتَّىٰٓ إِذَا بَلَغُوا۟ ٱلنِّكَاحَ فَإِنْ ءَانَسْتُم مِّنْهُمْ رُشْدًا فَٱدْفَعُوٓا۟ إِلَيْهِمْ أَمْوَٰلَهُمْ ۖ وَلَا تَأْكُلُوهَآ إِسْرَافًا وَبِدَارًا أَن يَكْبَرُوا۟ ۚ وَمَن كَانَ غَنِيًّا فَلْيَسْتَعْفِفْ ۖ وَمَن كَانَ فَقِيرًا فَلْيَأْكُلْ بِٱلْمَعْرُوفِ ۚ فَإِذَا دَفَعْتُمْ إِلَيْهِمْ أَمْوَٰلَهُمْ فَأَشْهِدُوا۟ عَلَيْهِمْ ۚ وَكَفَىٰ بِٱللَّهِ حَسِيبًا
And test the orphans [in their abilities] until they reach marriageable age. Then if you perceive in them sound judgement, release their property to them. And do not consume it excessively and quickly, [anticipating] that they will grow up. And whoever, [when acting as guardian], is self-sufficient should refrain [from taking a fee]; and whoever is poor - let him take according to what is acceptable. Then when you release their property to them, bring witnesses upon them. And sufficient is Allāh as Accountant.
۞ لَّا خَيْرَ فِى كَثِيرٍ مِّن نَّجْوَىٰهُمْ إِلَّا مَنْ أَمَرَ بِصَدَقَةٍ أَوْ مَعْرُوفٍ أَوْ إِصْلَـٰحٍۭ بَيْنَ ٱلنَّاسِ ۚ وَمَن يَفْعَلْ ذَٰلِكَ ٱبْتِغَآءَ مَرْضَاتِ ٱللَّهِ فَسَوْفَ نُؤْتِيهِ أَجْرًا عَظِيمًا
No good is there in much of their private conversation, except for those who enjoin charity or that which is right or conciliation between people. And whoever does that seeking means to the approval of Allāh - then We are going to give him a great reward.