۞ لَّا خَيْرَ فِى كَثِيرٍ مِّن نَّجْوَىٰهُمْ إِلَّا مَنْ أَمَرَ بِصَدَقَةٍ أَوْ مَعْرُوفٍ أَوْ إِصْلَـٰحٍۭ بَيْنَ ٱلنَّاسِ ۚ وَمَن يَفْعَلْ ذَٰلِكَ ٱبْتِغَآءَ مَرْضَاتِ ٱللَّهِ فَسَوْفَ نُؤْتِيهِ أَجْرًا عَظِيمًا 114
Translations
No good is there in much of their private conversation, except for those who enjoin charity or that which is right or conciliation between people. And whoever does that seeking means to the approval of Allāh - then We are going to give him a great reward.
Transliteration
Lā khayra fī kathīrin min najwāhum illā man amara bi-sadaqatin aw ma'rūfin aw islāhin bayna an-nās. Wa-man yaf'al dhālika ibtighā'a mardāti Allāhi fa-sawfa nu'tīhi ajran 'adhīmā.
Tafsir (Explanation)
This ayah condemns most private conversations (najwá) among people as lacking goodness, excepting those conversations that command charity, advocate kindness, or seek reconciliation between people. According to classical scholars like Al-Tabari and Ibn Kathir, this refers particularly to backbiting, gossip, and plotting—common vices in any society. The verse concludes by promising immense reward to those who engage in these three righteous acts of private counsel with sincere intention to please Allah.
Revelation Context
This ayah is part of Surah An-Nisa, a Medinan surah revealed during a period when the Muslim community was facing internal challenges, including disputes and social discord. The broader context addresses ethical behavior and community conduct, making this verse particularly relevant to regulating private conversations and preventing harm within the Muslim community.
Related Hadiths
The Prophet (ﷺ) said, 'The best of you are those who are best to their families, and I am the best among you to my family' (Jami' at-Tirmidhi 3895). Additionally, 'Whoever reconciles between two people and brings good, Allah will give him a good reward' (Sunan Abu Dawud 4919).
Themes
Key Lesson
This ayah teaches that our private conversations carry moral weight and divine scrutiny; we should guard our tongues and use confidential moments to encourage goodness, charity, and reconciliation rather than engaging in gossip or harm. When we act with sincere intention to please Allah rather than for worldly gain, even small acts of kindness gain immeasurable spiritual value.
Related Ayahs
فَأُو۟لَـٰٓئِكَ عَسَى ٱللَّهُ أَن يَعْفُوَ عَنْهُمْ ۚ وَكَانَ ٱللَّهُ عَفُوًّا غَفُورًا
For those it is expected that Allāh will pardon them, and Allāh is ever Pardoning and Forgiving.
أَلَمْ تَرَ إِلَى ٱلَّذِينَ أُوتُوا۟ نَصِيبًا مِّنَ ٱلْكِتَـٰبِ يُؤْمِنُونَ بِٱلْجِبْتِ وَٱلطَّـٰغُوتِ وَيَقُولُونَ لِلَّذِينَ كَفَرُوا۟ هَـٰٓؤُلَآءِ أَهْدَىٰ مِنَ ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوا۟ سَبِيلًا
Have you not seen those who were given a portion of the Scripture, who believe in jibt [superstition] and ṭāghūt [false objects of worship] and say about the disbelievers, "These are better guided than the believers as to the way"?
مَّن كَانَ يُرِيدُ ثَوَابَ ٱلدُّنْيَا فَعِندَ ٱللَّهِ ثَوَابُ ٱلدُّنْيَا وَٱلْـَٔاخِرَةِ ۚ وَكَانَ ٱللَّهُ سَمِيعًۢا بَصِيرًا
Whoever desires the reward of this world - then with Allāh is the reward of this world and the Hereafter. And ever is Allāh Hearing and Seeing.
وَلَن تَسْتَطِيعُوٓا۟ أَن تَعْدِلُوا۟ بَيْنَ ٱلنِّسَآءِ وَلَوْ حَرَصْتُمْ ۖ فَلَا تَمِيلُوا۟ كُلَّ ٱلْمَيْلِ فَتَذَرُوهَا كَٱلْمُعَلَّقَةِ ۚ وَإِن تُصْلِحُوا۟ وَتَتَّقُوا۟ فَإِنَّ ٱللَّهَ كَانَ غَفُورًا رَّحِيمًا
And you will never be able to be equal [in feeling] between wives, even if you should strive [to do so]. So do not incline completely [toward one] and leave another hanging. And if you amend [your affairs] and fear Allāh - then indeed, Allāh is ever Forgiving and Merciful.