An-Nisa · Ayah 19

يَـٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوا۟ لَا يَحِلُّ لَكُمْ أَن تَرِثُوا۟ ٱلنِّسَآءَ كَرْهًا ۖ وَلَا تَعْضُلُوهُنَّ لِتَذْهَبُوا۟ بِبَعْضِ مَآ ءَاتَيْتُمُوهُنَّ إِلَّآ أَن يَأْتِينَ بِفَـٰحِشَةٍ مُّبَيِّنَةٍ ۚ وَعَاشِرُوهُنَّ بِٱلْمَعْرُوفِ ۚ فَإِن كَرِهْتُمُوهُنَّ فَعَسَىٰٓ أَن تَكْرَهُوا۟ شَيْـًٔا وَيَجْعَلَ ٱللَّهُ فِيهِ خَيْرًا كَثِيرًا 19

Translations

O you who have believed, it is not lawful for you to inherit women by compulsion. And do not make difficulties for them in order to take [back] part of what you gave them unless they commit a clear immorality [i.e., adultery]. And live with them in kindness. For if you dislike them - perhaps you dislike a thing and Allāh makes therein much good.

Transliteration

Ya ayyuha alladhina amanu la yahillu lakum an tarithu an-nisa karhan wa la ta'dulu hunna litudhahibu bibardi ma ataytumuhunna illa an ya'tina bi-fahishah mubayyinah wa aashiruhunna bil-ma'ruf fa-in karihtumoohunna fa-asa an takrahu shay'an wa yaj'al allahu fihi khayran kathira

Tafsir (Explanation)

This ayah prohibits the pre-Islamic Arabian practice of inheriting women as property and forbids men from unjustly withholding women's wealth to coerce them into returning their mahr (dower). According to Ibn Kathir and Al-Tabari, the ayah establishes women's rights to financial security and protection from exploitation in marriage. It concludes with an emphasis on kind treatment ('mu'ashara bil-ma'ruf') in married life, and counsels patience and hope that perceived faults may contain hidden blessings from Allah.

Revelation Context

This ayah was revealed in the Medinan period addressing the community after the prohibition of pre-Islamic customs following the hijrah. It reforms the jahiliyyah (pre-Islamic) practice where men could inherit deceased husbands' widows as chattels, and addresses the contemporary problem of men misappropriating women's financial rights to force them into obedience or divorce without compensation.

Related Hadiths

The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: 'The best of you are those who are best to their wives' (Tirmidhi and Ibn Majah). Additionally, Hadith in Sahih Bukhari records the Prophet's farewell sermon: 'Treat women well, for they are like prisoners in your hands [you are responsible for them]'—emphasizing compassionate treatment as a sacred duty.

Themes

Women's rights and financial protectionProhibition of exploitation in marriageKindness and compassionate treatment in relationshipsReform of pre-Islamic customsTrust in Divine wisdom and hidden blessings

Key Lesson

This ayah establishes that women are not property to be inherited or exploited, but are dignified beings deserving of financial security and kind treatment—a revolutionary principle in 7th century Arabia. Modern believers should recognize that respecting spousal rights and treating partners with compassion ('mu'ashara bil-ma'ruf') is not merely cultural preference but a religious obligation, and that patience with perceived difficulties may reveal unseen good from Allah.

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